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ADHD or autism: how parents can tell the difference

ADHD mainly affects attention, activity level and impulse control. Autism mainly affects social communication and involves restricted or repetitive behaviours and interests. They can look alike, since both can make friendships and classroom routines hard, and they often occur together. Only a clinician can tell them apart, usually with input from home and school.

The key differences

ADHD and autism compared
AreaMore typical of ADHDMore typical of autism
Core differenceAttention, activity level and impulse controlSocial communication, plus restricted or repetitive behaviours and interests
With other childrenWants to join in but may interrupt, act on impulse or miss turnsMay find it hard to read social cues, start conversations or share interests
Routines and changeOften seeks novelty; routines are hard to stick toOften prefers sameness; unexpected change can be distressing
InterestsMoves between interests quicklyIntense, focused interests
SensesSensory differences can occurOver- or under-sensitivity to sound, touch, light or taste is common and part of the diagnosis
When it is noticedOften when school demands increaseOften in the early years, though some children are recognised later

Where do ADHD and autism look alike?

  • Both can make it hard to follow classroom routines.
  • Both can affect friendships, for different reasons.
  • Both can involve difficulty with attention: in ADHD it wanders, in autism it may stay locked on one interest.
  • Both can come with strong emotions and meltdowns.

Can a child have both?

Yes. ADHD and autism often occur together, and since 2013 the DSM-5 allows both to be diagnosed in the same child. This is one reason an assessment looks at the whole child rather than ticking off one condition.

What should I do if I am unsure?

Write down specific examples, including when your child was very young, ask the teacher what they see, and talk to your pediatrician. They may refer you to a developmental pediatrician or child psychiatrist. See who to see.

FAQ

Common questions

01
Which is worse, ADHD or autism?
Neither is worse. They are different, and each varies widely from child to child. What matters is the support your child needs, which a clinician can help you work out.
02
Is poor executive function a sign of ADHD or autism?
It can occur in both, and in children with neither. Executive function difficulties alone do not point to one condition. See our guide to executive function in children.
03
Can an online test tell ADHD and autism apart?
No. Telling them apart needs a developmental history, observation and information from home and school, assessed by a clinician.

Not a diagnosis. This guide is general information, not medical advice. If you are worried about your child, talk to your pediatrician. Written by the Mores Health team from the sources below; it has not yet been reviewed by a clinician.

Sources

  1. NIMH: Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder
  2. NIMH: Autism Spectrum Disorder
  3. World Health Organization: Autism fact sheet
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